Miles & Points for Families

Travelling on points is a wonderful thing that everyone ought be able to enjoy. Yet, all too often it seems as though the game is stacked against those with families who wish to travel with their little ones.

As the family’s travel planner, you’ve got to put in extra work to earn enough points in order to book travel for more than two passengers. Moreover, when it comes time to redeem those points, it can be tough to find enough seats for the whole family on your desired flights. Today, we’ll take a look at all the tricks and strategies that can be of use to parents who are eager to explore the world with their children, while simultaneously keeping costs down and perhaps treating everyone to a touch of luxury as well.

Earning Points for Families

The average family size in Canada is roughly 3 people, but for illustrative purposes we’ll consider a four-person family with two parents and two school-aged children. In other words, the two adults must earn enough points between themselves to fund travel for four people. Smaller families face a slightly less onerous task, while larger families will probably have their work cut out for them.

In any case, given the fact that only two members of the household can do the heavy lifting in terms of earning points via credit cards, it must be the case that some form of accelerated points earning scheme must be put in place. Exactly how aggressively you decide to hit up the credit card market will depend on your exact travel goals.

As always though – and this holds even more significance for those with little ones to support – do make sure your finances and spending habits are in order before jumping into the credit card market for the express purpose of earning points.

The first step for anyone looking to venture out into the world on points is to determine their goals. Let’s assume a modest starting point: each year you’d like to bring your family of four on a trip to Europe, flying economy class, for two weeks. There’s multiple places in Europe that you’d like to visit, so an Aeroplan Mini-RTW booking, which lets you stop in up to three cities for as long as you’d like, would be ideal.

North America to Europe in economy class costs 60,000 Aeroplan miles per person, so that’d be 240,000 miles for four passengers. A word of warning though – you’ll definitely want to make full use of the ability to have stopovers, since otherwise you can often book a simple roundtrip for better value by simply buying a regular cash ticket instead of using points.

Earning 240,000 miles per year, between two people, is a relatively easy task. It used to be even easier, but even with the recent changes to the American Express landscape, it remains simply a matter of both parents cycling between the American Express Platinum Card and the American Express Business Gold Card. Let’s work through the steps:

  1. Parent 1 opens the Platinum Card and earns the signup bonus of 60,000 Membership Rewards points
  2. Parent 1 refers Parent 2 to the Business Gold Card, netting a referral bonus of 15,000 MR points and a signup bonus of 40,000 MR points
  3. Parent 1 refers Parent 2 to the Platinum Card, netting a referral bonus of 15,000 MR points and a signup bonus of 60,000 MR points; Parent 1 then closes the Platinum Card so that it can be opened again in the future
  4. Parent 2 refers Parent 1 to the Business Gold Card, netting a referral bonus of 15,000 MR points and a signup bonus of 40,000 MR points
  5. From meeting the minimum spending requirements on the above cards ($3,000 for the Platinum Card and $5,000 for the Business Gold), you’ve also earned an additional 17,500 MR points

Note that ideally the two parents should “stagger” their ownership of the Platinum Card, so that both can take advantage of the two annual travel credits to lower the effective annual fee to $299, and also everyone in the family gets to enjoy Platinum benefits at any given time. 

So that’s already 262,500 MR points, which can transfer 1:1 to Aeroplan for you to book your four-person trip to Europe, and we’ve only looked at two credit cards so far. Now let’s throw in the fact that you’ll need somewhere to stay during your two-week trip. Enter the Amex SPG cards – if both parents grab the Amex SPG Card and the Amex Business SPG Card, that’s a net 80,000 Starpoints right there, for a $540 outlay in annual fees. 


Remember, 80,000 Starpoints can also be converted to 240,000 Marriott Rewards points, so by exploring Starwood and Marriott’s combined hotel footprint, you’re certain to be able to trade in your hotel points for accommodations in the cities you’re interested in visiting. If you take advantage of the fifth-night free benefit (i.e., you get a fifth night for free when redeeming points for four nights), it’s even conceivable that these points could cover your hotel costs for the entire two-week trip! Not bad for $540 out-of-pocket, is it?

The beauty of this beginner strategy is that it’s entirely replicable and sustainable. Next year, when the travel itch kicks into gear once again, you can simply rinse and repeat and take the family on yet another trip. Of course, on a day-to-day basis you should be ensuring that you’re optimizing your points earnings whenever possible as well, by doing things like maximizing shopping portals, crediting work flights to Aeroplan if possible, and making sure you’re using the most powerful credit cards for your daily spending.

Advanced Strategies

Now let’s kick things up a notch. While the strategy described above is a good basis for beginners to build on, there’s so much more of the world to see, and there’s so much more we can do in order to earn the points to take us there.

Part of the appeal of Miles & Points is the ability to book business and first class flights on the cheap; this can come in especially handy when travelling with children, since a good night’s rest on the outbound flight can make a big difference towards how the rest of the trip plays out.

So let’s raise our expectations a little: now, assume you’d like to bring your family of four on a business class trip around the world, say to Europe and Asia. That’s of course possible with the Aeroplan Mini-RTW – you might even be able to squeeze an African stop in there – but you’d need 150,000 miles per person for such a redemption, meaning a total of 600,000 miles is required for the whole family.

Now let’s add the following cards into the mix:

If both parents cycled through the above offers twice a year, that’ll bring you to the required 600,000 miles for a luxury round-the-world trip for the whole family. If this plan seems outlandish to you, it shouldn’t: hundreds of families around Canada are already making use of it.

Now, so far we’ve only considered earning Aeroplan miles, because in general that’s the most favourable program for Canadians given its generous Mini-RTW possibilities. But you shouldn’t ignore the other strong credit card offers in the marketplace, because it’s always good to hold points in other programs for things like booking a side trip or a short-haul flight as part of a larger trip! These offers include:

Redeeming Points for Families

This is where things can start to make you want to rip your hair out if you’re not clear on what you’re doing, and also the reason why many families find programs like Aeroplan something to be endured rather than enjoyed.

All too often, families collect Aeroplan miles for years before realizing that redeeming miles for flights is a convoluted affair, and so opting to cash in their miles for toasters and gift cards at poor value instead. After all, “free gift cards is better than nothing”… but it’s not as good as a round-the-world luxury trip for the family! 

It’s important to go in with the correct expectations: you’ll likely have to spend a considerable amount of time searching for award space, and even then you may well have to accept a few layovers here and there, especially if you’re looking to leverage the program’s sweet spots and hit up multiple destinations in one trip.

Furthermore, airlines tend to limit the number of seats per flight that they make available for a points booking, meaning that securing award travel for a family of four is even more of a challenge, and this impact is felt much more keenly if you’re looking for business and first class than economy class.

A few airlines can be relied upon for releasing up to four seats in long-haul business class; you’ll want to first have a look and see if these airlines can fit your needs. These include Asiana, Swiss, Turkish, and United:

Nevertheless, it’s still rather unlikely that you’ll be able to swing four business class seats on the exact flight you want. When that happens, you either need to be flexible in looking for alternate dates, or you’d be looking at “splitting the team” – say, between business and economy class, or across two different flights on the same day.

The benefit of the former option is that everyone still departs and arrives together, although of course there’s the question of who gets to sit upfront in the fancy seats. Many families choose to split the team on both directions of the trip, with one parent–child group taking the business class seats on the outbound and another on the return.

Meanwhile, often times it might make sense for you to split the team across two flights on the same day in order to allow everyone to experience business class. Each parent–child pair can still enjoy some quality bonding time, and there’s little real disruption to the travel plans if you arrive separately a few hours apart. This should only be considered, though, if both parents are equally comfortable handling themselves within the air travel environment, and each knows how best to proceed when things inevitably go wrong sometimes.

When it comes to actually booking the travel, the miles will be coming out of the parents’ accounts, and there’s no issues with using one person’s points to book tickets in another person’s names (e.g., the children’s names). Nevertheless, do make sure to take advantage of programs – like British Airways Avios or SPG – that make things easier for you, allowing you to pool both parents’ miles into a household account and make bookings out of that single account.

And speaking of hotels, given that you’re travelling with a larger group, you’ll likely be looking to upgrade your hotel rooms into suites. The Platinum Card bestows SPG and Marriott Gold Elite status as one of its many benefits, which will no doubt prove helpful in securing those upgrades. See how everything ties together nicely?

Lastly, the general mantra with award travel is that it pays to make bookings either well in advance (i.e., up to 330 days out) or extremely last-minute (i.e., two weeks out). Since the latter option tends to be unrealistic for families, it might be worthwhile to do some long-term travel planning as parents to decide where to take the family over the next couple of years, allowing you to then take action as soon as the booking window opens.


When it comes right down to it, parents looking to take their children on extravagant points-funded trips simply need to hustle a bit harder than their dependent-free counterparts. It’s no doubt a big undertaking, but with just a few extra steps in the process of both earning and redeeming points, you’ll be witnessing your kids experiencing comfortable lie-flat seats and sipping – uhh, juice – at 37,000 feet in the air. Just don’t let them get too spoiled by it! 😉

  1. Ken

    Hi Ricky,

    Just a question, you noted that for Amex Business Gold cards, you get a 15,000 referral bonus. Is that just an old referral bonus? All that I see now is the Business Gold for 5,000 referral points.

  2. Jeff

    Hey Ricky,

    Great post, a lot of info to digest. Just wondering about the timing of the Amex Bus Gold. Say it takes you 2 months to clear spend and then the points for this card don’t seem to post for up to 10-12 weeks after. Even being aggressive, cancelling and reapplying after 3 months puts you at an 8 month cycle per person. Am I missing something?

    1. Ricky YVR

      Yeah, so you ideally want to get the cycle down as close to 6 months as possible. 7 months is very much achievable, providing you use creative ways to quickly meet the minimum spending.

      Also, you can hold multiple Business Gold cards at once (some people have more than one business, after all).

      1. dani

        Really? We can actually hold more than 1 Biz Gold cards at the same time? You know this from experience?

  3. Yin

    Hello Ricky,

    When you suggest closing the account after getting the sign up bonus, where does the sign up bonus go to?
    I always thought i would lose the points accumulated by closing the account associated with it. So i always use the points before cancelling the card.
    Is there any way i can close the account and keep the points earned?


    1. Ricky YVR

      Hey Yin,

      This usually depends on the points program. If the points are associated with a third-party program (like the CIBC Aeroplan account, where the points go to Aeroplan and aren’t kept with your credit card), then you keep the points when you cancel the card. If they’re kept "in-house" (like CIBC Aventura points, RBC Avion points, etc.), then you’ll lose the points unless you transfer them out first.

      I might actually write a separate post on this question, since it tends to get asked a lot.


  4. Owen

    Great Post Ricky! Just wondering if you have any recommendations for searching for SPG/Marriott hotels that can accommodate 4 people per room in Europe an Asia (Japan in particular)? The information doesn’t appear to be readily available on their websites and I’ve had to call the hotels up to find out… TIA!

    1. Ricky YVR

      I think the occupancy usually shows up when you click through to Book. Alternatively, you can can specify "4 adults per room" or "2 adults/2 children per room" when searching, but sometimes that ends up excluding properties where such occupancy is actually allowed.

      Unfortunately I think speaking with the hotel directly is the only way to know for sure in these types of situations.

  5. Syed Naqvi

    Hey Ricky.. you should do a post on avoiding the surcharge fees associated with Aeroplan. I have almost 60K membership reward points in AMEX but unsure if I should transfer them to aeroplan. From vancouver to any european city, after redeeming the 60k miles it shows me taxes & fees of $600. People have suggested calling the helpline but where should we search for these reward flights? And what’s the best way to go about it? Cheers.

    1. Jay

      From YVR via DEN/LAX/ORD/SEA/SFO to Europe. Plenty of low cost YQ carriers.

      1. Syed

        @Jay: That’s what I am struggling with. None of these flights show up on aeroplan’s search engine. Should I use the multi-city option?

        1. Ricky YVR

          Hey Syed,

          Usually you have to search segment by segment. So first look for YVR-DEN, YVR-LAX, etc. and see if you find your desired flights. Then look for LAX-Europe, etc. If that fails, try other options, like YVR-YYZ followed by YYZ-BRU on Brussels, or YVR-YUL followed by YUL-ZRH on Swiss.

          Once you’ve found your desired flights, call Aeroplan to book it. I will say that North American to Europe is a tricky redemption though, and you can often get better value by just paying for a flight, especially if you’re looking to travel in economy class.


  6. Wandering Steve

    Love this!

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